No, it's not mandatory, nor is it encouraged if, say, you're a scrawny nooksniffer who couldn't get someone to date him if a drone was knocking at her hive entrance.
[nooope she's been busy generally being weird as usual]
Not much! Karkat told me you were here. So, hey! Are you blind or not?
[this may seem like a weird question to Sollux, but Terezi is just kind of making the default assumption he might be further ahead on the timeline... oops.]